It's really discouraging to witness the strife my friends go through. I oft find myself asking God why there is so much suffering in the world, but I find my question answered before I finish asking. Tim,
He says, I didn't want it to be this way. I wanted you to live and to love, but that's not how it worked out. People are suffering and it hurts Me more to see that then you could ever imagine. I cry, just as you are now, when I see My children hurting. Change is coming, but not soon enough for some. All you can do is show them the love that I have shown you... all you can do is give them something better to hope for. Help them off the ground from their stumbles and lift up their supplications when they can't or don't know how to form the words.
And so, I am reassured that I'm here to help to bring this to an end. It won't be like this forever. We can't keep this up... we are tearing each other down so much that there will come a time when there won't be anything left to tear down.
I write this mostly to bring attention to the fact that this happens. It's a part of our (I say our because I know I do these things too) everyday lives and something that we can change, if only we really want to. That's why Romans 8:5-11 is so important. Being a Christian means that we have the opportunity to choose between sinning and following God's desires for our lives. That's so empowering! And if you're not a Christian, I know you can still make changes in your life. We have to stop peer pressure, picking on people, boasting our egos, and being cruel to each other. It all just needs to be replaced by love.
I stand here a survivor of such actions by others. I had a horrible time in middle school because, regardless of my height, I was picked on every day. I grew up shy, starving for some loving attention, and not finding it until just over two years ago. It was a Christian that first showed me what love was really all about. You could be that person for someone in need of love. Heed the calling! Love, not hate. It's a simple and life-changing choice to make it. I pray that you make it.


