Do you have an idea how irritating it is not to have someone in my life to consistently give flowers to? My step-mother is a florist, specializing in weddings. She routinely has some of the most gorgeous flowers I've ever seen. And she routinely offers to put something together so I can cheer up someone's day. And I don't have anyone to give flowers to! Granted, I could give flowers to friends--and I do, on occasion. However, there are only certain times when it's appropriate, namely when someone needs a pick-me-up or as a gift on a specal occasion. It just doesn't seem appropriate for me to give a female (maybe I'm stereotyping, but I wouldn't give flowers to a guy, sue me) friend flowers for no apparent reason (as I would with a girlfriend). And here my step-mom has gorgeous flowers she's dying to give away to someone. Grrrr.
You have to understand that I really like putting smiles on people's faces. My sense of humor (alright, true enough that it's often groans elicited by my sense of humor, but I digress), my compassion, and my (sometimes--hmm, I need to work on this) sunny disposition are all there because I enjoy how others react to them--I enjoy other's enjoyment. When I sing like a crazy person in the car, half of it is because I like people getting a laugh out of it. Picture this: a 6'4", clean cut (relatively, anyway), (sometimes) prim, young man driving along wiggling around, conducting with his non-driving hand, and singing (quite horribly at times, I'll admit) while apparently concentrating on the road. OK, you'll either be amused or horrified--hopefully the former.
I think it's perfectly understandable that it's frustrating for me to not be able to brighten someone's day. I'm just going to deal with it now. However, if my future wife doesn't like flowers--oh, we're going to have some problems.